{"id":6005,"date":"2021-07-03T17:40:06","date_gmt":"2021-07-03T21:40:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calacs-chateauguay.ca\/no-longer-your-fence-its-their-fence-now\/"},"modified":"2023-06-22T18:40:07","modified_gmt":"2023-06-22T22:40:07","slug":"grieving-and-mourning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calacs-chateauguay.ca\/en\/grieving-and-mourning\/","title":{"rendered":"No Longer your Fence \u2013 It\u2019s their Fence Now!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The day my life changed.<\/p>\n<p>I walked onto the field once more afraid to face them once again. My past.<\/p>\n<p>A fence could be a lot of things to many different people. The fence had always represented a prison to me. A place where I had been a victim. A place where children wounded me with their words, their hands and objects. The fence had become implanted in my mind. THE FENCE WAS DANGER !<\/p>\n<p>Then one very cold day, I went to the field once more. I sat on the bench\u00a0 and looked at the fence. But that day the fence looked different. I saw it through the innocence of a child. It was a playground to climb. A place to jump from. They walked across it. Their laughter replaced the fear. Their running replaced the anger. And for the first time in my life I found peace with the fence. It is no longer scary and intimidating. It\u2019s no longer dangerous. IT IS NO LONGER YOUR FENCE (past) IT IS THE CHILDREN\u2019S FENCE NOW.<\/p>\n<p>\u2013\u00a0Cathy<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The day my life changed. I walked onto the field once more afraid to face them once again. My past. A fence could be a lot of things to many different people. The fence had always represented a prison to me. A place where I had been a victim. 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